The rest of the breakup was pretty predictable - she was able to tell him "this isn't working" first (which we all know counts the most), followed up by a slew of lame agreements from the "ex" in an attempt to save face: I didn't see this going very far, you're not my penguin, your friends are awesome and I'd like to still hang out with them, I'm a sex addict…"
Pump the brakes - Come again?
That's right, Dude admitted he was a sex addict after breaking up. Who does that? It's like, "hello! Here's some ammo to use against me, new person who I'm not even friendly with anymore." That's the kind of information that would have been useful upfront, during the whole is this person the one for me? phase, not on the back end of a failed attempt at human connection. I mean… why? Why is this juicy tidbit necessary? What purpose does it serve, aside from adding fuel to the fire of paranoia that she must naturally have contracted AIDS from his dirty, promiscuous junk.
This is what my friend was left with - the inescapable fear of death by STD, as confirmed by WebMD. I had to reassure her that if I was able to dodge that bullet after my boyfriend cheated on me with a transgendered prostitute he solicited off muthafuckin CRAIGSLIST, no one is getting AIDS. The clap, maybe, but no AIDS for anyone. Ever.*
This was of great consolation to her, and I was happy to be of service, but it still didn't answer the question of why this guy felt the great need to come clean about his sex addiction now. This information could only be used against him. (Also, I'd like to point out that this guy came from Tinder, so ladies be forewarned: you're not shopping at Nordstrom.)
We started work-shopping motives behind his sudden confession - was this an attempt at explaining his disconnect? It certainly didn't explain why he still lived with his mother… or did it? The conspiracy theories came pouring in. Of course he wants to keep hanging out with my friends - Fresh holes. I mean, the places we went in our minds weren't healthy.
We concluded it was best to let his reasoning for sharing his addiction die alongside the relationship, but not until after she finished the Yelp review on his Tinder profile.
*This statement is not true.